I've always been this kind of girl that would think her life is horrible because of a little thing that ocurred to me. I would only see the negative side of everything, forgeting the good one. If something bad or that I don't like it happened, I would immediately see everything dark and think my life is the worse, not accepting to see that life is not only that.
Everyone is always trying to find happiness when we already have beautiful things around us, all the time. Maybe they are little, and they are not beautiful for everyone, but perhaps for you it is. You just have to look at it with different eyes. There is this quote that says "People wait all week for friday, all the year for summer and all the life for happiness.", and how true is this?
I think everyone has this moment in their life where they realize you don't have to wait for things to happen but you have to go to get those things. And you cannot wake up every morning with a negative mind; you have to wake up with positivity, thinking that everything is possible and not waiting for the perfect things. I mean, most of the people is always waiting for the happiness to get them. They are waiting to become happy but what they can't see is that happiness is something mental. And with this I don't talk for everyone but for people who lives in developed countries and have, more or less, a proper life.
A while ago I realized I couldn't be sad anymore. We all have our up and downs, and that's what life is made for, but they don't last for ever. When you succeed in something, then you have to turn the page and start a new chapter. And you cannot start that chapter with a close and negative mind but open and positive. Everyone prefers to be with happy people that are always smiling than with sad people that are waiting for happiness to get them.
For example, there is this girl that tries to see the good side of things and there is the other girl that is eternally waiting for happiness. If one little thing that is not good happens, the first girl would react in a totally different away comparing to the second one. A stupid example: it's Saturday afternoon and starts to rain. The first girl may get sad but would try to see the good side like it is a perfect afternoon to watch a movie while the second girl would be sad and spend a depressive afternoon because it didn't go like she expected.
It's all about how we see the world.
It would be very beautiful to go to sleep every day thinking "What am I thankful for today?", and try to think about all the amazing things that have happened that day. Because life is not perfect, neither we are, but we must try to see the good side of life because otherwise we are wasting it. And we only live once.
So next time you are sad, try to find the beautiful side because life is amazing.
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